Let’s be real: you’re not going to win an argument with your sex doll. After all, it’s not capable of talking back, much less offering a counterpoint to your reasoning. But, if you find yourself arguing with your doll, it’s likely more about your internal dialogue than any kind of real conflict. This “argument” might be an opportunity for self-reflection, venting frustrations, or simply talking through something you’re grappling with in your personal life.

When engaging with a doll (even as a joke), the focus shifts from real conflict resolution to a one-sided conversation. The “argument” may be more about personal thoughts than about “winning” or “losing.” It’s a way for some people to express their emotions or even gain clarity on a topic.

To make the most of these moments, consider how the conversation with your doll helps you understand your own thoughts and feelings. Instead of focusing on winning an argument, use the experience to explore your emotions. What’s causing frustration? What do you wish you could express to a real partner?

Though it might feel silly, these internal dialogues could act as a release, enabling you to gain insight into your emotional needs and better handle actual conflicts when they arise.